How It Works

Why Willpower Isn’t the Answer

Most people already know what they want to do.

  • Eat better.
  • React less.
  • Stop the habit.
  • Feel calmer.

But when stress or emotion hits, impulses take over before logic has time to respond.

That’s not a failure of willpower.
It’s just an automatic reaction running the moment.

Winning Changes focuses on slowing that reaction down.

The Simple Idea Behind Winning Changes

Change happens when the body is able to listen.

When impulses slow down, habits can follow new directions.

That’s the goal of this work.

How Tapping Fits In

We use gentle tapping as part of the process.

Using tapping is like knocking on a door.

It gets the body’s attention.

Once the body is listening, change can happen.

Tapping itself isn’t the solution.
It simply helps the body stay present while we talk through what’s really going on.

What We Do During the Process

We don’t force change.
We don’t fight impulses.
We don’t ignore what you’re feeling.

Instead, we:

  • Bring attention to the impulse

  • Name what’s coming up honestly

  • Use gentle tapping to help the body stay engaged

  • Let the reaction settle

  • Guide habits in a new direction

As the impulse loses strength, the habit no longer has to run the moment.

What This Helps With

People use this approach to help with:

  • Stress and overwhelm

  • Anxiety and racing thoughts

  • Cravings and impulsive habits

  • Irritation and resentment

  • Emotional reactions that feel out of control

As reactions calm down, choices feel easier to make.

Learning the Skill for Yourself

The goal is not to rely on sessions forever.

The goal is to learn how to talk to your body in a way it can accept.

I help you get started and guide you in the beginning—
so you can practice, learn, and use these tools on your own in everyday life.

Support as You Begin

Some people like help at the start while they’re learning.

If you’d like support as you get started, you can book a Winning Changes session.

If you just want to understand whether this approach feels right, you’re welcome to begin with a free Talk to Rose call.


You don’t need to fix your body.
You don’t need more willpower.

You need your habits to follow new directions.